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I've learnt about love for a long long time and never known its true definition. I've thought we can only find its explanations, more and more, days by days, breathes by breathes, times by times. It depends on the experiences we passed and the recent situation that which attacked us for a while.
Many times I think I can love someone or something by giving my heart, but it was found that's impossible. It's so foolish to think that. I cannot do love alone. It's the story of at least 2 people. Like a story that written by couple. It's individual but at the same time duet. The poets must write the story in the same way individually.
Once I've known by someone that love is to give. Times by times I've tried to do so. I've tried to prove it but no answer found. While I give my love and my best wishes to someone, I'm always very happy. However, the more often I do, the less my love valued. The more often I give, it’s too often to receive for her. My heart I give becomes nothingness at last. Thus now I’ve learnt love is nothing to give…but to share.
Love is designed for 2.
02
I love to design so I'm a graphic designer. The more I donate to my works, the more I celebrate to them. I’ve produced so many works days by days. I love to do that. This is the one I can call “MY LOVE”. In this case I can do it alone. Design is designed for one who loves to do, even though the return is not money. I do because I love to do. I'm the poet. I'm the writer. I'm the designer. I'm the director. I can do everything to this kind of my love.
Someone loves to make friends so he or she comes to any space just for saying hello, chatting, creating profile, showing images, etc. To show how each is friendly, times by times, sentences by sentences, dialogs by dialogs. Each loves to do that. Everyone can be the winner. It's a win-win game. It sounds love?
But for someone, love is more meaningful. He tries to take care of the other one's heart, and giving the other one his love to keep up. If each one does it, that's the love I mean. It becomes verbal.
Love is designed for 2.
03
Not only design I love, but also to love I love. So I donate myself to my love as I donate to my design. But the first one I love has never broken me because I can do it alone, while I cannot do that for the other one. It needs another people to help me write, to help me design, to help me direct, and to help me complete. The problem is who she is. Nobody can solve this problem even myself. Love is not designed alone. I’m talking about the story of 2 to write together, to design together, to direct together, and to complete together.
Love is designed for 2.
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I've donated my whole life to my love. I've donated myself to design. From one who is a new coming designer to one whom many people rely on. I've learnt. I've studied. I've experienced. And I've practiced, days by days. For me, I call these Passion. Love is always started by thing we call passion. But the verbal love I mean needs beyond it. It can be completed by someone’s strange. Someone who's prompts to donate her whole life to her love, and then exchange to each other to learn, to study, to experience, and of course to practice together.
My design absolutely needs another one at least to appreciate. My love needs another one to share.
Love is designed for 2.
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Love is nothing to hold...but to share. That's thing I've learnt by myself.
Better to keep my heart by myself is to let someone keep it well. Then love is more meaningful. Someone told love is to give. That's right, but... it sounds verbal... the verbal love after sharing to each other; the verbal love when exchanging to each other; the verbal love that each one must take care of the other one.
Love is deadly alone. Verbal Love is alive.
Love is designed for 2.
06
Love is about destiny. How can we believe that’s true?
Someone falls in love with another one at first sight. We call it destiny. Some couple has similar character. We think that’s the right one. Believe that?
For me destiny is just something surprised. It’s not conclusion. It’s just a start. We must be still taking care of each other. We must be still keeping up each other. And, we must learn, study, design, direct, and practice together days by days. For me, love is nothing about destiny.
Love is designed for 2.
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Loving mom is love between me and my mom. Loving dad is love between me and my dad. Loving brother is love between me and my brother. Loving sister is love between me and my sister. It’s always the story of 2 people but it can be complex. Loving family is the complexion of each love. We cannot love our family as a whole but we can love each member in the family. Each relationship needs each own design.
Love is designed for 2.
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Loving friends? We cannot love all our friends as a whole but we can love each friend individually. Each friend needs each own design.
Love is designed for 2.
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Certainty / Change / Development
Love acts and reacts daily, so it’s uncertain by itself. If we need certainty of our love, it’s necessary for each of 2 to maintain each other, not once but always.
More than certainty, love is about change. Learning together makes changes. Studying together makes changes. Practicing makes changes. All actions together make changes. Who cares certainty? These can be called development that cannot be done alone. It’s the story of 2 people.
Love is designed for 2.
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In love we trust, we should start the story by relying on each other and giving trust together. Open mind and believe. Not be afraid but try. Don’t wait but walk. Not once but always. Not alone but together. Not for ourselves but for each other.
In love we trust…
Love is designed for 2.
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Better to be happy alone is to know someone we can share happiness. Better to solve problems lonely is to know there’s someone to give us the hands. Better to be sad alone is to know there’s someone prompts to absorb together. Better to smile at the mirror is to have someone needs to smile with you.
Love is designed for 2.
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